I have run my gearbox with grease, with 50-50 gear oil and stop smoke, and auto trans fluid.
In other words, I doubt lubrication had anything to do with you troubles. As for Kline and that chewed up clutch bell, I really don't understand that. I understand that soft metal will result in the teeth getting chewed up, but I am referring to curved gouges on the bell itself. As you can see from the pics of my bell, nothing has ever touched it. Even with good metal, if there was contact, there would be a mark of some sort. That really looks odd.