Why so mean?

I have posted a few questions in the past and I have read many questions from other guys and I read some very mean responses. Why? These are guys just like you who are trying to have a little fun and need a little help from time to time. I don't read the replies any more because of the high level of anger displayed. I am certain that I will get some hate mail just from these few comments. I love building motorized bikes and I really like to help other guys to avoid mistakes.
 
I think that what butre said above is pretty accurate. But there's more to it than that, too.

This is an internet forum, after all. And that just brings out the worst in some. But this forum is pretty clean in terms of that sort of stuff. I'm sure you've noticed; there are worse places to surf.

Plus there's just some inaccuracy when typing what one wants to say and the way that it's received. Many times folks write up something that they think of as a joke. Or a mild poke in the ribs, at worst. Yet the reader, or some third party, perceives a real slap across the face. There's no real explanation. It's just the way it is.

So I sympathize with you. But there's not much to be done. Just stay away from the places that really are mean.
 
us regulars are a salty bunch but we don't mean any harm.
For me, I call 'em as I see 'em, but I try to keep it in a constructive way.
The thing for me anyway is pointing out absurdly ignorant designs, idea's, and finished far from safe builds, as well as Kudos for cool quality builds is all.

Ya, a 'salty bunch' as most don't pull any punches when it comes many things, especially safety, be thankful for that, it may save your life.
 
It really comes down to perspective and that there are many ways to do things. I respect both sides those who can dedicate the time and money to create beyond standard builds and than those folks that just want to do the standard and have fun as soon as possible. I mean tbh I got a lot of flak for my $50 Walmart bike and cheapest 4-stroke kit, but it is working out really well for me and I definitely feel safe on it. My riding and other cars driving skill, well, that is an entirely different story. This is a really fun hobby and way to get around town; respectfully opinions and comments should not be reserve for the professionals and folks with years of mechanical experience but for all to help each other otherwise I'll just go read a guide.
 
There's nothing constructive about calling a person an "idiot" or a "moron". I don't mind as much if someone tells me my idea is idiotic, people make mistakes, but there is no need to call me an idiot personally. My take on internet bullies is that they are usually cowards who wouldn't have the balls to say half the stuff they say to a persons face.
 
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a tad off topic but kind of related
 

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I am a Viet Nam Vet and spent a lot of years in law enforcement, I wrestled, boxed and ride moto-cross so I'm about as salty as salty gets. Being salty does not explain why some folks feel that the have to put people down for asking a question. Ignorance explains why they do that.
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Sorry to say many of those you try to help are just as rude and when you try to help they want to say I know that well if you know that then why are you asking. Guess that comes from so many youngens on here. Yes I was young once and experice has a lot to say.
 
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