they really need to be sent off to be done. look for a company that does nikasil plating.
you won't be able to do any better at home than they can do in the chinese factories. it takes some pricy equipment to get it right.
I would assume they use some sort of chemical stripper to get the existing chrome off. the only thing I know of that readily eats chrome is muriatic acid, and that turns into a terribly toxic mixture that you don't want to have to dispose of. it'll eat your plumbing so it can't go down the sink, and it'll kill damn near everything that it ends up on so no dumping it in the garden. best to leave that kind of stuff to the people that handle the s**t every day