Can you just provide a link to exactly what you bought, you don't have a top hat adapter so that's not relevant, and what you do have seems to be counterintuitive to be "some idiot's" fault since if both sides are threaded then one side must be a left hand thread to be a functional hub, if both sides are right hand threads then what you have is something real f***ed.
Looking at your hub I can't say you have a grubee HD hub, if you did you wouldn't be able to bump start because the freewheel that is part of it would stop it. If you aren't using an adapter that screws into the larger left hand threads then you will get this problem. Sorry those photos just aren't giving the right info needed to determine what is going on.
Ok here’s the link to the wheel:
http://www.bicycle-engines.com/HD-Bike-Wheel-and-Axle-Kit.html
Assumed it was using a Grubee HD axle/hub kit because it said Skyhawk on the box. Had to do without the disk brake adapter shown in the picture on the website because it was too wide for my dropouts with it on.