Maybe I can clear up the miscommunication.
Vikingmike is trying to say that he knows that a torque arm is, the issue is that the power he is running is far greater than what the steel those torque arms can handle. Basically, that square section that is supposed to hold the axle ends up rounding out due to the torque. Unless you know of any companies selling a high carbon steel version, most off the shelf solutions will not work..
However, Vikingmike, you could always take that design to a machine shop and have them cut some from either a high carbon steel or simply a thicker piece of steel which could help solve the wallering out issue until you get a new frame.