plain old teflon tape. plumbers, gas works, whatever. i use white because its all i see the point in buying (aka cheapskate).
you take a length that will make two full turns or so around the cylinder. twist into a string, then simply lay it in a loop around the cylinder, pop the head on... no issues with joining the ends together, the overlap is more than adequate.
it squishes down to less than a thou, whilst filling in the small gaps that will always be present (unless you got a surface plate and can use marking blue and a scraper?) it resists temperatures up to about 350C, which virtually no other "plastic" can do. as it squishes, it also spreads and covers virtually the entire sealing surface (if you remove the head, this will become apparent) almost like a liquid sealant will do.(of which none will take such high temperatures OR pressures other than lead based paints)
it doesnt harden, it doesnt stick, its easily replaced, and did i mention , its CHEAP? there is a special purpose teflon string available, but its expensive, and the string is about 3mm in diameter...way too much.
if any gets in the cylinder itself, it doesnt cause any damage, either.
and yes, i use it on exhaust gaskets too, as long as its not a hassle getting it to stay in place during assembly.
i would not advise using nylon... it melts, sticks to everything, absorbs water, goes hard and brittle when it dries out, and produces highly toxic fumes as it melts. it also has very little compressibility. teflon has the ability to "ooze"...
i only ever experienced one slant fire head, and it warped exactly as mentioned in all these posts. always on the plug side. whereas centre plug heads, always stayed nice and flat.
when you compare the two, side by side, you notice that the fins provide strength in one direction, why they never warp that way, but the slant plug heads have no "beam" to prevent warping on the plug side... whereas the centre plug heads have a nice heavy "beam" of ali between studs at right angles to the fins. on both sides. and it seems that in every thread or post about warped/leaking heads, its always on the edge on the plug side. removing material just makes them even weaker.
peeking at the head on one of those 500watt 2stroke generators... they DO have a "beam" under the plug side of the head. never bothered to check the distance between studs to see if they would fit.