You are right. I will be the one who is most concerned about this. Thanks for the detailed explanation too. So I should use the motor only in the purpose of carrying the market items then.Weight was not my initial concern, SAFETY is my concern.
In most countries, it is totally illegal to carry any passengers on a bicycle that is not expressly made for that purpose, (such as a tandem bicycle also known as a "bicycle built for two"), for obvious reasons.
Adding a motor to the bike now adds a further dimension to this scenario.
It is just plain dangerous as just one unforseen accident can cause serious injury or even death not only to you but the children as well.