Just to let you all know....

Discussion in 'Off Topic' started by JemmaUK, Jul 12, 2008.

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  1. JemmaUK

    JemmaUK Guest

    Hi all,

    I might disappear for a while fairly shortly... its not because im bored of the subject, not by a long chalk lol.

    Some of you here know my situation, some dont. I am not going to rehash that here. At the moment my partner is in hospital terminally ill. She is not expected to survive longer than a couple of months, she sleeps most of the time, and is constantly in pain. What makes this all harder is she is only 22 years old.

    When what must happen happens, I will be in no fit state for a while to be online or talking to people so I make my excuses in advance if I seem to disappear for a bit... I will be back when I have done what I will need to do and dealt with the situation enough to get back into the swing of life in general.

    I just thought I should let people know

    Jemma xx

  2. HoughMade

    HoughMade Guest

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and her.
  3. JemmaUK

    JemmaUK Guest

    Thank you :)

    Jemma xx
  4. You'll be missed but my thoughts and prayers are with you also.
    Take your time, Jemma.
  5. KilroyCD

    KilroyCD Active Member

    Oh, what terrible news. My thoughts and prayers will be with both of you.
  6. dbigkahunna

    dbigkahunna Guest

    We will be here. Remember, ya got friends here and let us know if you need something more than a prayer and positive thoughts.
    Via con dios
  7. lennyharp

    lennyharp Member

    Prayers for comfort for both of you. Please write as you can and keep riding too. Transition is a part of an eternal perspective we share as life.
  8. wayde

    wayde Guest

    our thoughts and prayers are with you we'll all be here when your ready to come back

    RATRODER Guest

    Peace be with you and her,always. louis
  10. JemmaUK

    JemmaUK Guest

    Thank you for all your kind thoughts and wishes. It means alot to both of us. I am trying to stay positive about the situation, although even for the greatest optimist there isnt much to find that positive. :(

    I will talk to the doctor again soon but there is little more they can do but keep her comfortable and moderate her pain. The only viable option now would be a transplant of everything below the diaphragm - and she is far to weak to survive that sort of procedure. All I can do is be there for her.

    thank you again for all your support and kind words, I will write when I can but I honestly doubt that I will be writing anywhere other than this thread.

    Jemma xx
  11. Feng

    Feng New Member

    I am so sorry, Jemma.

    My prayers and thoughts are with you.

    Please take care.
  12. Esteban

    Esteban Active Member

    My sympathy & prayers are with you, both. I hope that she is at peace, relieved of pain, & that you both can have the greatest of times during her last days !!
  13. BSA

    BSA Guest

    I'll really miss your input to the forum Gemma, my thoughts are with both of you.

  14. jpcourtney

    jpcourtney Member

    So sorry for you two.

    Thoughts and prayers,
  15. bluegoatwoods

    bluegoatwoods Well-Known Member

    Very, very sorry to hear it.

    But don't forget that you have a bunch of folks here who value your contributions and hope for your happiness.

    Dont' be gone too long.
  16. JemmaUK

    JemmaUK Guest

    Thank you all for your kind words and thoughts. Sasha is in less pain at the moment although she is sleeping more - which is to be expected. She is still completely lucid when she is awake which is a good sign.

    I will keep you all updated as I can. There may be some good news on a slightly different front soon so wish me luck. I just hope she says yes ...

    again, thank you so much for your support and friendship, it means alot to both of us

    Jemma xx
  17. JemmaUK

    JemmaUK Guest


    Sasha is slowly getting worse - which is as expected :cry:

    Shes awake less of the time and is on a higher dose of pain meds

    Thank you for all the support it means alot..

    Jemma xx
  18. ozzyu812

    ozzyu812 Member

    I'm so sorry.

    I'm so sorry. I actually have a lump in my throat. It makes my problems seems so small.
  19. JemmaUK

    JemmaUK Guest

    To let you all know.

    Sasha died yesterday in her sleep - 13:37 on the 22nd September 2008...

    She almost made it to my birthday as she had promised.

    I wont be around for a while, thank you for all your support

  20. kerf

    kerf Guest


    I am truly sorry for your loss but it is best that her struggle is ended and she is at peace. My prayers are with you.