I believe that when a person has reached a decision, and made a plan of action, THAT it should be honored as a personal choice. To whine and coerce, in an effort to try to convince that person to do otherwise is to dishonor that persons integrity. With that said,,,,
Large? If you need to step to the sidelines for a while for fresh air and time to reflect, Great! But to throw in the towel over a discussion that rubs the scabs raw is a choice made in haste. If you feel the need to join the other forum, I think we can all understand that decision too, after all we do trust your integrity, and know you know how to do what is right for you.