You'll get TONS of great advice here. But you still have to try things for yourself. Like many things in life, this site is a blessing and a curse. The downside is that all this knowledge from these guys is too tempting and too easy not to lean on. You have to post frequently enough that you learn who really knows what they are talking about. Luckily for me the really smart guys haven't gotten sick of answering my questions. Yet.
Remember though, people are biased. They may sometimes prejudice their answers somewhat negatively because they don't agree with your choices. It's not malice though, just bias. I REALLY don't want to become an expert on every aspect of these things, I just want to ride it. But the unavoidable truth is that the more of an expert you are the more you will be able to ride.