I'll add to Street's question... Can we see some pictures of your current setup that you want to add/change to a two speed system? I checked your profile but there's no media page there.
Physical space constraints could be the limiting factor.
Do you have a stand that allows you to pedal the bike (by hand if not by sitting on it and pedalling) so you can test and see chain movement and stuff?
Slack in the upper run if chain during bump start - if you're in low gear there is little slack anywhere and that little bit should be able to be controlled. It also only happens when you start the engine, and most people only start it once, not multiple times during a ride, so setup can be specifically for the start-up and then changed to running and gear changing setup.
It's the engine braking during high gear deceleration and downhills that is the big slack issue IMO.
So what's been the biggest change in derailleur technology in the last decade, apart from Di-2?
I have the #410 bmx chain already and I'm sure it is perfectly fine for single speed use as many others are using it. I wouldn't expect it to fit through any derailleurs though or be the best thing for that. IMO.
The 11t drive sprocket reduces chain load by about 10% ...according to my logic at least.
Of course you can tell I'm thinking only of a derailleur based system, myself; but the options brought up by Timbone, Steve Best and Frankenstein are interesting too!