yup, get new head. it will never get better, you get the warp out, it will come back.
i much prefer the central plug heads, they dont tend to warp as they have more metal, a bridging piece between the two studs. this bridge is missing under the plug in the slant heads. though i have seen one that had the bridge...
less metal= more warping. keep that in mind when milling heads.
less teflon tape= better sealing. yes you do need the two surfaces to be flat. its useless if anythings seriously warped, it doesnt work as a washer but rather more like a liquid sealant. it oozes into the tiny little crevices.