bluegoatwoods
Well-Known Member
I get a lot of positive comments and people are interested. They ask me often how they can get one, or at least learn a bit about them, and I refer them here. But so far none of them have followed through. It's puzzling. But it's only been about 4 months since I motorized (though I've been well-known in the community for many years now as a bicyclist). Maybe it just takes time. Perhaps it takes a while for people to decide to take the plunge. It took me a while.
The rude guy in the SUV reminds me of my oldest and dearest friend, now deceased. He was a lot like that. Yet this guy was certainly not bad-hearted. He was cheerful, very eager to laugh, worked hard and played hard. Generous to a fault. And he had the means to be generous; inherited a business and also grew it through hard work and smart management. I introduced him to a few people who then went on to have thirty year friendships with him themselves. Yet behind the wheel this guy was the biggest jerk (stronger words come to mind, but I'll keep it clean) that you've ever seen. I tried to tell him to "relax..take your time..cool it", but he wouldn't listen. Since we were friends, we managed to avoid fighting about it. But he didn't seem to be capable of even considering my advice. I had always worried that he'd die in a car wreck or a road rage incident.
I'm not even sure where I'm going with this. But once again; this was not a bad man by any means. There's just something about being behind the wheel that drives some people crazy. We'd be wise, as a society, to recognize this and try to figure out some way of dealing with it. People like that do sometimes kill pedestrians, bicyclists, other drivers, even children playing in their yards.
The rude guy in the SUV reminds me of my oldest and dearest friend, now deceased. He was a lot like that. Yet this guy was certainly not bad-hearted. He was cheerful, very eager to laugh, worked hard and played hard. Generous to a fault. And he had the means to be generous; inherited a business and also grew it through hard work and smart management. I introduced him to a few people who then went on to have thirty year friendships with him themselves. Yet behind the wheel this guy was the biggest jerk (stronger words come to mind, but I'll keep it clean) that you've ever seen. I tried to tell him to "relax..take your time..cool it", but he wouldn't listen. Since we were friends, we managed to avoid fighting about it. But he didn't seem to be capable of even considering my advice. I had always worried that he'd die in a car wreck or a road rage incident.
I'm not even sure where I'm going with this. But once again; this was not a bad man by any means. There's just something about being behind the wheel that drives some people crazy. We'd be wise, as a society, to recognize this and try to figure out some way of dealing with it. People like that do sometimes kill pedestrians, bicyclists, other drivers, even children playing in their yards.