Forum rule #3 - respect others

[Deleted member 12676]

3. Respect other users. No flaming or abusing fellow forum members. Users who continue to post inflammatory, abusive comments will have their posts deleted and may be banned permanently from the forum.
https://motoredbikes.com/help/forum-rules/

S.R., if you want to stay on this forum I suggest you not respond to my posts or anyone elses posts with "LOL what a joke!" like what you recently did which caused me to attack you in return with my own flaming arrows.
For anyone with zero culture let me explain to you that doing such is abusively mocking and derisive (putting someone down) which is the opposite of respect.
No "normal person" wants to be put down in any way just because they have a different opinion.
If you think someones opinion is trash then take your time to explain completely why you disagree.
Don't start out my saying "what crap..." which is instantly abusive and a call to arms.
Keep in mind too that there are some grey areas where maybe both of the people arguing are right to a certain degree. If you calmly discuss the subject then both will learn how it isn't so black and white as you thought.

If you are a naturally abusive person then please seek psychiatric or spiritual help to purge out your inner demons. Don't unleash them on innocent people here that just want to share and learn.
If you were "raised by wolves" and don't know how to respect others (ie: don't insult them) then it's high time you learned.

Those of you reading this who know you are abusive but never admit it (because your mind defends you and so always excuses your behavior) well probably everyone else knows it anyway so you might as well admit to yourself that you aren't right in your head/emotions and its high time to change. The first step towards change is an acknowledgement of the problem.

 

[RIZ]

3. Respect other users. No flaming or abusing fellow forum members. Users who continue to post inflammatory, abusive comments will have their posts deleted and may be banned permanently from the forum.
https://motoredbikes.com/help/forum-rules/

S.R., if you want to stay on this forum I suggest you not respond to my posts or anyone elses posts with "LOL what a joke!" like what you recently did which caused me to attack you in return with my own flaming arrows.
For anyone with zero culture let me explain to you that doing such is abusively mocking and derisive (putting someone down) which is the opposite of respect.
No "normal person" wants to be put down in any way just because they have a different opinion.
If you think someones opinion is trash then take your time to explain completely why you disagree.
Don't start out my saying "what crap..." which is instantly abusive and a call to arms.
Keep in mind too that there are some grey areas where maybe both of the people arguing are right to a certain degree. If you calmly discuss the subject then both will learn how it isn't so black and white as you thought.

If you are a naturally abusive person then please seek psychiatric or spiritual help to purge out your inner demons. Don't unleash them on innocent people here that just want to share and learn.
If you were "raised by wolves" and don't know how to respect others (ie: don't insult them) then it's high time you learned.

Those of you reading this who know you are abusive but never admit it (because your mind defends you and so always excuses your behavior) well probably everyone else knows it anyway so you might as well admit to yourself that you aren't right in your head/emotions and its high time to change. The first step towards change is an acknowledgement of the problem.

"Life is like walking along a crowded street--there always seem to be fewer obstacles to getting along on the opposite pavement--and yet, if one crosses over, matters are rarely mended."

Thomas Huxley

 

[Frankenstein]

A lot of psychoanalysts agree that most sociopathic behaviors are not treatable unless intervention is introduced at an extremely young age. After a certain point the hard wiring is set and virtually impossible to undo. While admittance is surely possible and often occurs naturally the individual is usually not capable of taking any steps towards correction of behavior, the unconscious ID overrides any empathic emotion (if the person even has that structure, many don't) to defend its actions that the conscious ID can perceive as morally objectionable.

I like telling people I think they are wrong, real world and on the internet, there's no harm in sharing opinions, don't go on the internet if you don't want to see them, seriously.

 

[gary55]

All of this forum negativity is so microagressively problematic it's triggered me to search for a safe space.

 

[RIZ]

A lot of psychoanalysts agree that most sociopathic behaviors are not treatable unless intervention is introduced at an extremely young age. After a certain point the hard wiring is set and virtually impossible to undo. While admittance is surely possible and often occurs naturally the individual is usually not capable of taking any steps towards correction of behavior, the unconscious ID overrides any empathic emotion (if the person even has that structure, many don't) to defend its actions that the conscious ID can perceive as morally objectionable.

I like telling people I think they are wrong, real world and on the internet, there's no harm in sharing opinions, don't go on the internet if you don't want to see them, seriously.

Point well taken.
I sometimes stick my nose in where I have no business. I should have left that thread to the parties involved. Someday I'll learn . . .
Have a great day.

 

[Spare_Parts]

Pot calling the kettle.....

 

[Frankenstein]

Pot calling the kettle.....

I wouldn't go that far but jaguar is no more guilty of his own call outs than the rest of the majority of us are of the same deed, it is more of a human nature type of thing. I chose to just live with it. Note that doesn't mean I'm an as***le while performing but if you're going to be the d*** then I may as well play the part, and well.

 

[Stoneman]

I think we all should take what the point of this post is and move on.....we aren’t kids.
Everyone should be able to share their opinion without CONSTANT attack from others.

Anyway, judge me if you will.

 

[Deleted member 12676]

example:
poster #1 says having 300 psi cranking pressure is the best mod he's ever done
poster #2 says "that is laughable nonsense"
poster #3 says "I highly disagree with that and here is why..."
Poster #1 may think both of them are assholes to oppose his idea. But to anyone outside of the conversation it is obvious that #3 is communicating in a respectful manner.
The point here is we are all free to disagree but not free to insult people while disagreeing. If we think someone is an as***le then we are free to think that but not free to voice it.
I often think people are completely off their rockers but only after someone starts insulting me will I voice my lowly opinion of them.
But that is a fight and that's not what forums are for.
We all need to remind ourselves that each person has the inherent right to his own opinion, no matter how right or wrong it is.

 

[gary55]

I'm with you on the wrongness of taking the argument to personal insults. It's just not helpful, or relevant to the argument. I am also at odds with the idea that you can tell people what they can or cannot say. If you restrict people from expressing their real thoughts you can't get to know who they are or what they believe. If someone thinks me to be a as***le for telling them that they can't get 300PSI form a china girl I am happy for them to say so. It lets me know what I'm working with.